Sean Hayes Comes Out ?
Really? Did you honestly not know? What idiot had to wait for him to come out?
Did he not play that part too well on ‘Will and Grace’. A straight man can not manifest those qualities so effortlessly for YEARS!
When asked why he took so long to reveal, Hayes says , “Nobody owes anything to anybody. You are your authentic self to whom and when you choose to be, and if you don’t know somebody, then why would you explain to them how you live your life?”
This where Andy Rooney yells the infamous “Gimme a break!”
Relationship Milestones
My friend Soren and his boyfriend of two years called it off recently. Despite the fact that they were both very attractive men with charismatic personalities and a seemingly pristine relationship on the outside, I knew it was a relationship on the rocks. Soren and Gavin after two years had not reached a pivotal relationship milestone – they still lived separately, and not just down the street separately either. Ok Ok I know I know, there are many mid to long distance relationships in the world that work great, but let’s be honest, those people either come together eventually or split apart. If Soren and Gavin were a straight couple I would be more forgiving of them living separately for two years, for heterosexuals are notorious for moving at a snails pace compared to their homosexual counterparts.
So just what are these relationship milestones I speak of that signal love longevity?? Some are obvious, and some are not.
The obvious ones in no particular order:
1) You move in together.
2) You meet his parents.
3) You let HIM meet YOUR parents.
4) You not only meet each others parents, but you attend family functions together.
5) You know the passwords to his accounts. Read more
Talk about some hot trade . . .
If “Josh” were to have sex with “Kate” who recently had sex with “Mike,” in the process of thrusting his penis back and forth in her vagina, some of Mike’s semen would be forced under Josh’s frenulum, collect behind his coronal ridge, and displaced from the area proximate to the cervix. After Josh ejaculates and substitutes his semen for that of the other male, as he withdraws from the vagina some of Mike’s semen will still be present on the shaft of his penis and behind his coronal ridge. As his erection subsides the glans will withdraw under the foreskin, raising the possibility that some of Mike’s semen could be captured underneath the foreskin and behind the coronal ridge in the process. Were Josh to then have sex with “Amy” several hours later, it is possible that some of the displaced semen from Mike would still be present under his foreskin and thus may be unwittingly transmitted to Amy who, in turn, could then be impregnated by Mike’s sperm.
Scenario from http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=secrets-of-the-phallus&page=3 on why the dick is shaped so lovely.
Relationship growing pains
Studies say that keeping a pet in the home reduces stress and improves longevity. But I’m sure my husband’s dog has reduced mine by about a year, and will probably cut down on my lifespan by 5 to 7 years if she has an average mortality.
They smell. They make akward noises. They chew up nice things. They can’t poop or piss on their own. They shed. They need food and water. I could roll some other things off the list, but suffice to say animals are a big responsibility, a responsibility I don’t want.
But after stepping in dog shit on the way to work and stepping barefoot on catshit in our hallway, I reached a breaking point. Whether the dog shit belonged to his dog or not, I had no other dog to blame. I told Jay in my most honest voice with the most sincere heart, that I could barely tolerate this zoo situation and would not be angry at him if I felt no other option but to leave, because I would never expect him to give up his animals. I wouldn’t demand anything back that I’d given him, I’d part peacefully.
To my suprise he lowered his brow and spoke cordially, “If giving them up is something I must do, I’ll find a way.”
My heart sank. I never thought he would love me enough to chose me over his beloved “babies”. But knowing he would set my nerves at ease, or maybe it’s just the stress pills I’m taking. What a mature and loving decision for a 22 year old to make. Most men in their early twenties would sooner kick me out because of pride and selfishness, but Jay is different. Behind his childish demeanor, mouth-wide-open gaze, and love of Sailor Moon is a real, mature, man.
